lonely soul

lonely soul

Thursday, 5 January 2012

mom and facebook

well eventhough its kinda too late, i learned that if your parent (esp mother) doesnt know about facebook, twitter etc just let them be. dont ever try to teach them how to use it. regretfully my mom has a facebook account and yeah she moniters every single thing i did. not enough with that her siblings (not mine) have their own facebook acount. i secretly wanted to unfriend them all but i was afraid i got caught. so i just bear with it.. i dont really care at first.. i started really caring yesterday when she said "don't thing what u did in fb i didnt already know" (she said this in malay).. i was taken aback for a moment there.. she was somehow (by the tone of it) thretening us.. i was like "what?".. i know she kinda have the right to do so but just do it quietly..dont brag about it to the world..


i have been away from home for five years and i was just used to the idea im alone in a state without any family or relatives.. to elaborate..i lived in selangor and went to school in johor... i got no relatives in johor... i survived the city alone with the help of my friends... that was when i'm 13 years old.. i survived (i feel like applauding myself)... what makes them think i cant handle myself now... i'm just sitting at home doing nothing..


well i have an older sister.. she likes playing with my mom's galaxy tab.. she likes to log in to her fb n twitter account from it.. but 'smartly' she didn't log out of it after using.. she is quite safe with fb because my mom uses it to so she has to log in so she will automaticly log out of my sister's profile...but for the twitter (my sister often use this one) there was no reason why my mother need to log out of it.. so secretly she moniters what my sister post tweet.


when my mother started her lecture on she'll monitor us (yada yada yada) i was thinking.. " ah dont worry just us the twitter next time" then she spilled the beans on my sister twitter account on her tab.. i was like ---------. this is the only place she wont know.. the only ones who knows about this blog is my pal pika and my younger brother because we're sharing the same laptop.


the moral of the story is dont ever influence your mother to open any social page because you'll regret it sooner or later..i'm just really thankful my dad is not interested in facebook related( even after persuasion from my mom;-) 

2 comments:

  1. My mom signed up on fb specifically just to keep an eye on me too, and yeah, it's annoying. But guess what? The best thing is you can always outsmart your parents without having the risk of getting caught doing it. Just list them as the people u don't want have access to your status or updates. And u don't even have to block or unfriend them. Ez

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